I want you to think for just a minute about the number of times you have said to another person, ‘I’m going to kill you.” My guess is that it’s a bunch. At the same time, if you’re like most people, I don’t suspect you’ve ever actually followed through on this threat. Then why have you said it so much? Because that expression has become a culturally acceptable way of (usually playfully) expressing your frustration with another person for whom you generally have a relatively high degree of affection. This context of love is what clues them in on the fact that you don’t really mean it. This is an interesting cultural development in light of the fact that our culture has been pretty thoroughly shaped by the Judeo-Christian worldview, and that God was pretty clear He’s not a big fan of murder. Let’s talk about the sixth commandment, what it means, and what we should do with it today.
“Honor your father and your mother so that you may have a long life in the land that the Lord your God is giving you.” (CSB – Read the chapter)
When scholars examine the Ten Commandments, they often group them together in two big sets. The first set has to do with our relationship with God. Those are the first four. The second set has to do with our relationship with people. Those are really the last five. This fifth command sometimes gets grouped with the second set, but it doesn’t really belong there. It definitely does not go with the first set, though. It’s really a transitional command to get from one to the next. Let’s talk today about why honoring parents was a big enough deal to God that He included it on this list.
“Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy: You are to labor six days and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God. You must not do any work – you, your son or daughter, your male or female servant, your livestock, or the resident alien who is within your city gates. For the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and everything in them in six days; then he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and declared it holy.” (CSB – Read the chapter)
Some of the fieriest conflicts Jesus had during His ministry were over the Sabbath. Throughout much of the history covered by the Old Testament, Israel didn’t really keep this command very well. After the Babylonian Exile, though, and by the time Jesus came onto the scene, they were positively radical about it. The weight of this command bore heavily on the shoulders of the people. We’ve talked before about the Sabbath when God first introduced it to the people back in chapter 16. Let’s reflect again here on what God was helping the people further understand.
This week we are wrapping up our series, Leverage. For the past few weeks, we have been working through Jesus’ response to the disciples’ question about greatness in the kingdom of heaven. The short version is that if we want to be great in God’s kingdom, we have to follow His example of leveraging our resources for the sake of the people around us. Last time we looked with Jesus at a very specific example of how this can work in practice. We learned that when we leverage our resources for those who have hurt us, redemption is always the goal. But what if redemption doesn’t happen? What then? That’s what we’re talking about today. Let’s dig in to this together.
How Many Times?
Last week we talked about the fact that when someone hurts us we gain a kind of power over them. I want you to think for a second this morning about a time when you were hurt by someone else. I don’t just mean a little hurt either. I’m talking about a big, bad, ugly hurt; a hurt that was soul deep; a hurt that you carried with you for a long, long time…maybe you are still carrying it today. What did you do with all of that power? If you’re like most people, you probably didn’t do anything particularly productive with it. Maybe you made the other person pay relationally, especially when they reached the point of realizing their sin and seeking to repent of it. Maybe you’re still making them pay. How’s that working for you? Perhaps you used your power to build yourself some armor. This kind of armor can take a lot of different forms. Sometimes it is a prickly personality. Others, it is a refusal to let anyone get close. Armor like this makes us strong. It protects us from getting hurt again. But it also makes us lonely because it doesn’t let anyone really get close. It could be that you used your power to hurt someone else so you knew you weren’t the only one hurting. You wouldn’t have admitted that in the moment, and you may not have even realized it, but it was there all the same. There are all kinds of different things we can do with the relational and emotional power we gain over another person when they hurt us. What we should do with it is another matter.
“We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God, who are called according to his purposes.” (CSB – Read the chapter)
A common cliche we like to use when something happens unexpectedly or unfolds in a way we didn’t plan is that God works in mysterious ways. The idea is that God can accomplish things in ways and by means that go well beyond our ability to explain them. Followers of Jesus call this miraculous. Secular folks just call it chance or good luck. Either way, our powers of prediction are generally pretty bad. A recent series on AppleTV got me thinking about all of this as I watched the story take twists and turns the characters could not have imagined at the outset. God actually played a role in the story, but it was an interesting one. Let’s talk for a bit today about Lessons in Chemistry and how things all work out according to plan.
The Nexus 