“This is why a man leaves his father and mother and bonds with his wife, and they become one flesh.” (CSB – Read the chapter)
The recipe for a good romantic comedy is that two people fall in love. But then what? Used to be, the “then what” was a hint that they were going to get married. Used to be, though, isn’t all that common anymore. Nowadays, the love stories end with a kiss and a promise of…well…love. But is that enough?
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“Now as a concession, not a command, I say this. I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another. To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion. To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.” (ESV – Read the chapter)
Singleness, marriage, and divorce are tough issues to talk about. They are emotional ones. Singleness is a difficult journey in and of itself. Cultural pressures to be sexually active regardless of marital status combined with pressures from the current culture of the church for everyone to be married and which suggest that singleness is a kind of second-class status make it even more difficult. Marriage opens us up to a level of intimacy that is often a lot scary and hard to maintain. Its “til-death-do-us-part” mantra is daunting, especially when you start it young. And, once again, culture puts all kinds of pressure on us to make it something entirely less sacred and permanent that it was designed to be. And, because of the intimacy of marriage, divorce is always messy. If the Scriptures are right in that the married couple becomes one flesh, a divorce for any reason is akin to amputating a part of our body, and not something small like a toe. It’s more like taking off an entire leg or arm. In other words, these are big issues. Read the rest…
“Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.” (ESV – Read the chapter)
– 1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Two things here. First, the list of sinful behaviors pursued unrepentantly which will keep us from access to the kingdom of God is long and varied. There are many, many ways to separate ourselves off from God, some of them large and obvious, some of them small and easy to hide. In some ways it is better to be caught up in a big, obvious sin, because then everybody knows you are doing wrong and you can be called to account more easily. Sometimes the smaller, more culturally acceptable and easy-to-overlook sins can be deadly traps because we don’t believe we are doing anything worthy of repentance or needing of forgiveness all the while we are on a road headed directly out of a relationship with God. That’s the easy part.
Second, this is one of the few passages in the Scriptures that specifically mentions the sinfulness of homosexual sexual interactions. Read the rest…
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