Tag: Sermons

Identifying the Problem

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Marriage is one of the single greatest journeys any of us will ever take. It is capable of taking us to places of emotional and relational and physical and spiritual fulfillment that are hard to reach by any other means. That doesn’t mean people not so called are stuck incomplete. God calls and cares for them in special ways that go beyond what marriage can offer. But for those called to it, it can be absolutely incredible. At the same time, marriage is hard. It is hard enough that most marriages don’t make it for the lifetime the man and woman promised to each other at the altar. Everyone needs a little help and encouragement along the way. For the next few weeks, we are going to be doing just that in a new teaching series called, The Journey of a Lifetime. In this first part, we are going to identify the primary problem besetting our relationships. Let’s talk about it!

Identifying the Problem

Most of the stories we heard growing up ended with “happily ever after.” And, if the story involved a prince or princess in any way, what was it that likely preceded that famous tag line? A wedding. The characters fell in love, they got married, and they lived—say it with me—“happily ever after.” But did they? I mean, what happened after the credits rolled and the happy couple started to discover that one of them snores and one of them hogs all the covers. One prefers to sleep right in the middle of the bed surrounded by 8,000 pillows, while the other wants just a sheet and a pillow that’s only a step above putting a piece of paper under your head. One showers in the morning and the other at night. One is a morning person, and the other doesn’t honestly function until after the second pot—not cup—of coffee has been consumed. One is content with a bit of chaos, while the other likes to have everything neatly in order. One is always right and the other is never wrong. In other words, they start to find out that marriage is hard. Sometimes it’s really hard. And somewhere along the way, they are tempted to just throw up their hands and walk away because something created by God for our good and His glory couldn’t possibly be intended to be this hard. 

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Doing Makes All the Difference

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This week we are finally wrapping up our journey through Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount. For the last two and a half months we have been working our way through the incredible vision of God’s kingdom Jesus gave us in these words. Here at the end Jesus doesn’t add any new teaching to the pile. Rather, He offers us a warning and an encouragement. Both are focused on making the same point: If we don’t put all of these things into practice, they won’t do us any good both now and when all things finally come to an end. Let’s dive into these words together as we are reminded that doing really does make all the difference.

Doing Makes All the Difference

I spent three years in seminary. While I was there, I took classes on all sorts of things you might expect a preacher to learn. We studied Greek and Hebrew. We learned various approaches to interpreting the Scriptures. We took classes on theology and church history. We learned how to defend the faith and to make strong, rational arguments in its favor. There were preaching classes, of course. Toward the end, there were even a couple of practical ministry classes and leadership classes. It was a robust program in which I learned a ton. Or at least, I felt like I did. But it’s hard to know how much you have really learned until you have the opportunity to actually put it into practice. 

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Summer Reruns: Thinking About Government Properly

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This will be the last post for this week as well as our final summer rerun before getting back to our journey through Proverbs next Tuesday, so let’s take a bit deeper of a dive for a Wednesday than we normally do. Today’s rerun is a sermon from a couple of years ago. This one falls toward the middle of a series called Who Do You Want to Be? Inspired by a question Peter asked late in his second letter, the series invited us to consider the kind of people we want to be in light of the fact that this world won’t last forever. This third part of the series took a look at the question of our relationship with the government as followers of Jesus. I wrote this message in the waning months leading up to a deeply divided, heavily partisan election season…and look where we are once again two years later. The message is still timely. Also, this happens to be Mark’s version of the passage in Matthew’s Gospel that we are going to be talking about in one week when our Wednesday night Bible study time returns. All in all, this felt like a worthwhile post to look at with fresh eyes today. Enjoy!

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Summer Reruns: Being Different and Starting Fresh

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This will be another short week of blogging as we are sneaking one last trip in this summer before hitting the ground running in August. We’ll get back to our journey through Proverbs then as well. Today is a little different from our other summer reruns because I’m including two posts today. The first is a sermon I posted on this day about four weeks after we started meeting together in person again after the initial Covid shutdowns. We worked through the story of the church in Acts those first few weeks. The second post I should have shared a couple of days ago on Saturday, but I don’t blog on Saturdays, so you get it today. This one was actually the first post I ever wrote. That’s right, Saturday was the ninth anniversary of my starting this blog. It was also my first official non-Sunday day on the job here at First Baptist Oakboro. The post looks pretty rudimentary compared to posts now, but again, it was the first one I had done. I didn’t have any idea what I was doing. I didn’t have any idea I would still be writing nearly a decade later. Yet here we are. You never know what kind of a journey God will take you on. With almost 2400 posts and views from 217 different nations and territories under my belt, I can’t wait to see what comes next. Have a great start to your week!

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Worry About Yourself First

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Last week, I was out of town, and Pastor Dave did a great job walking everyone through the second part of Matthew 6. This week we are getting into the final third of the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus opens this next section talking about judgment, and specifically not judging others. Or does He? What Jesus has to say about judgment here is more nuanced than it seems, often misunderstood, and absolutely vital for us to get right. Let’s dive in.

Worry About Yourself First

Have you ever been judged before? I don’t mean in a court of law. I mean you did something somebody else didn’t think you should have done and they made sure you knew it. Now, as for how they communicated this disapproval, the options are manifold. Maybe they just told you to your face that you were wrong. The direct approach usually does get the job done. Perhaps they didn’t use their words, but their face said plenty. I’ve been told I can sometimes use my outside voice without ever opening my mouth. Anybody else struggle with an overly expressive face? They could have been more indirect with their judgment as well, expressing their distaste for your chosen path in how they treated you thereafter. However they made their thoughts plain to you, if you were confident in your chosen course of action, you probably processed a single thought in your mind: I sure wish they would quit judging me. 

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